Everyone has their own opinion on the birth order traits facts. Most of people believe that our birth order determines our character. For the eldest, it is said that be more responsible, mature, often a perfectionist, a good leader, smarter and low self-esteem. In my opinion, that is not the birth order that affects characters of each sibling. I totally disagree about the facts that said the birth order traits determine the character. I said like that because based on my observation to my siblings, that my eldest sister is not mature, what I means here is she being more funny and do not take something seriously. But I like her being like that, while my second sister is more mature, take something seriously and acts like she is a leader. That is totally opposite the facts. Another fact is about smarter or other word is higher IQ; I believe that is not about order traits, it is about as an eldest, she will try the best and being a good example to show at the other siblings his ability. Secondly is about the middle child is not an achiever, often felt neglected, and lack of direction. As the middle child, I disagree about that; my parents educate all my brothers and sisters with fair and lovely. I do not feel that I am being neglected and lack of direction. Others fact about the middle child are creativity and artistically inclined, I believe that it is gift from the god and not all the middle child has that gift. At last but not least, about the youngest child is often getting away with anything, not independent and often not taken seriously. About that, I believe that being the youngest child feel like all the attention get to her/his those make them being independent and also often not taken seriously. Peoples have their own opinion about the birth order traits and mostly all the facts that birth order traits determine characters are being exactly. But to me because of my siblings have opposite fact about that make me believe that not birth order determine our characters.
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